Saturday, October 3

first impression stays.but not for too long.

jotted down at 11.35pm,bandar baru kundang,sg.buloh,


1. bila kita sudah kenal orang lama lama,mereka tidaklah segempak dan sehebat as we tend to think masa baru mula mula kenal,alas,cool tak cool kawan kau jugak"

-ct shahidatul akmal,facebook
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2."lelaki handsome vs lelaki biasa "

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assalamualaikum fellow bloggers!
oh ya,selamat..selamat..haha hari raya ada lagi kan?
and happy wishes for you my '1 malaysia' friends!

ok since i am very busy(*sempat pula blogging,)
but i dont care i want to write it here so i could rest in peace then,
maybe some of you my readers darling tak dapat relate,
between ayat 1 dengan ayat number 2,
ok since i am very busy,ok ahh mari i jelaskan,you guys duduk baca saja okay?

okay,
are we ready?
and the story goes like this,
kita semua selalu dengar cliche macam first impression is very important for us,no matter,untuk job interview ke,dating guys or women,or maybe to at least show your self to others,untuk hebah kan pada semua orang,hey its me,

so there we go,we will try our best'est to developed our first impression,ok jangan tipu kata no,i'm just born with it,maybe its maybelline..bla..bla..kita sedar atau mungkin bawah sedar telah developed impression people kepada diri kita sendiri,the way we dressed,mau kelihatan hip,atau muslimah,atau intelek,apa sahaja, dan on the other way round, kita juga sedang judge orang lain atas impression mereka juga,

for instance as i am so busy and tapi entry ni makin panjang,its my subconcious mind i swear!
ok sambung balik,for instance,when we first met other people,new people, impression pertama sudah pun di buat,cuma terpulang jika kita menyuarakannya macam

"dia sombong tapi macam hip,budak bandar!",
"waaa,kacaknya,he must be very eligible untuk masuk list calon suami gua".
itu yang di suarakan.atau di nyatakan.


ada juga yang di suarakan tapi dalam hati macam "...... huh.... "
sebab dia dalam hati maka tak nampak text dia,titik titik sahaja,

tapi adakah kita sedar,bila kita dah lama kenal,hati budi orang itu, first impression pada mula tadi mana dia pergi mungkin?

membina first impression penting.a good one, its like a kick start to start of something,a relationship, a conversation, communication tools between human to human, because we human like good things, so if the first impression baik,kita akan memulakan hubungan dengan cepat dan mudah,by time..dan bila orang kenal siapa kita yang sebenarnya,tak kiralah most annoying habit yang kita ada, who would gave a damn anymore?

first impression stays but not long lasting macam lipstick,maybelline.

dan kenapa ia berkait dengan ayat number 2?

okay,maybe some of you knows,i got a crush on this super duper uber handsome guy which i met on facebook,and i cant figure it out i'm just too obsessed with him,stalking?ohh itu lagi lah dah basi,so i planned him to get to know me,haha mastermind..its not an easy task i'll say,pusing kiri pusing kanan,atas bawah, matlamat menghalalkan cara,so i use every thing and way just to get to know him,

well my plan worked!
and we start to flirt and i so admit urgh..lelaki handsome sangat berlagak..a little when he get to know me,and first time dalam hidup i,i turunkan saham i just to get him! its like a game,i want the grand prize,sebelum ni i yang demand,and lelaki yang kejar i ok?*terbelagak pula.

so i dapat dia,tapi i perasan,dia main tarik tali..kejap suka,kejap tidak,geram pun ada,
kecewa la kejap,tapi..makin lama i kenal lelaki handsome tersebut..i know,usaha i beriya iya selama ni,buang masa sahaja,dia bukan lah se handsome rupa dia,

personality:k.o
humour:ok laa..biasa je
sensitivity:kantoi,its like i pulak kene sensitif pasal dia,
character:out.

so yang tinggal,wajah handsome dia sahaja lah..


orang kata lelaki tak handsome lagi baik buat stock boyfriend,

hmm..ye la kot.

moral of the story,first impression and the end result.could be totally different in certain circumstances.refer ayat 1.


ok tu je.pendek kan?

satu.dua.tiga.
he's just not my type.silly silly.haha

5 comments:

  1. huhuhu...dont judge a book by its cover...

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  2. untungnye dia.. at least untung sekejap...

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  3. brummie,saya nk knl dgn awk boleh?lol

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  4. I remembered having this kind of conversation with my other half:

    "Look is what to get a man attracted to you... at first, but it requires overall personality/chemistry to go beyond that first impression.

    ;-) take care..

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  5. hehe..
    i wish my man of interest have the same 'writing talent' as you are..why doesn't he?kidding.

    "Look is what to get a man attracted to you... at first, but it requires overall personality/chemistry to go beyond that first impression"

    as i hate to admit,it also holds true isn't it?

    unfortunately all 'good looking man i'm attracted to' only got the look without any character/personality to be brought to the table as well,for the record most of them i met with personality doesn't come in a good packaging(looks) so to find a man with both quality is hard nowadays..

    however,i still believe in ALLAH and hope to find one eventually,

    btw,thanks for dropping by,send my regards to sis-in-law will u?

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